Back up plan

[Psycho2380]

My wife wants 2 have a another woman move in with us so we can have threesomes on the regular shes a bit younger and i think its going hard explaining 2 the my family when they come over what do i about this.:hmmm:

[Kingpin]

:yikes: WOW! Y'all know I love to give my two cents, but even I don't know how to approach this. I'm gonna have to leave this to my main man Morph, and anyone else who may have experience or expert insight. haha.

I certainly hope things work out for everyone's good in this matter though, Psycho. You are one lucky son bitch to have a wife that's down with that sort of thing, that's all I can say. lol. :laugh:

[hotratid]

I don't have experience, but yall really gotta sit down pen and paper listing the pros
and cons. Its easy to say but hard to follow thru from the stories I have heard.

e.g does your wife want this because she is bi
does she want this because she is curious
does she want this because she thinks its something you want?
do you want it because its a fantasy?
do you want it because your wife mentioned it?

let us know, we want a template to follow or not to follow :D

[Psycho2380]

I don't have experience, but yall really gotta sit down pen and paper listing the pros
and cons. Its easy to say but hard to follow thru from the stories I have heard.

e.g does your wife want this because she is bi
does she want this because she is curious
does she want this because she thinks its something you want?
do you want it because its a fantasy?
do you want it because your wife mentioned it?

let us know, we want a template to follow or not to follow :D

I know what she want is a toy to play with i just thinking about the other girl feeling in this cuz 2 me i think of her a human sex toy:no:

[Lex Luthor]

Hmmm well unfortunately I've only heard bad things when it comes to threesomes in "serious" relationships. Now the fact that you mentioned "wife" is a bit of a concern. BUT it doesn't mean it can mess anything up between you and Wifey. As long as you two are really cool about this then it's all fine. But your right about the third party. She will need to fully understand that she is only there for sex, and nothing more. Dude you can't be having two wives in the house can you now?

[TheColdCity]

All I gotta say is... WoW, Umm, well I guess just fuck em' both and enjoy

[MorpheusX]

Well, before I can answer the question with any depth, I'll need to know a few things:

1) Have you and your wife had threesomes before? If so, have you had many, or a few?

2) Has your wife ever been in a long term intimate relationship with another woman before you guys hooked up?

3) Has your wife articulated the emotional reasons why she wants a 3rd person in your relationship?
If it's just sexual, you could always find a tag team chick that pops in often and crashes at your place without without creating a polyamorous living situation.

4) You said she's a bit younger than you. What is her age range?
A) 18-24
B) 25-30
C) 31-35
D) 36-40
E) 40+

5) Do you have children living at home?

[Psycho2380]

1. four in the past three years
2. no i got her started on it cuz she likes control females
3.Its mainly sexual
4.the girls 23
5.no kids

[Big_Ro]

I mean if my wife ever did that for me I would accept it, I am not just saying that because it's another ass in the house it would be to honor her wishes. You should make sure it's what she really wants and also ask if you can discuss it openly with other if she says yes to that I would say just tell people the truth.

[MorpheusX]

Sorry about the delay in responding,. Been soooooooooooooooooo busy these last few weeks with my design firm that I've barely been able to find the time to sleep, much less have fun.


Well, since you and your wife are no strangers to this particular pastime, and it's more than just a one-time experiment for you two, plus you're young and have no kids, then I say go for it.

She's only 23. This is something she might outgrow in the future, but now that she's young, she wants to experiment and is down for the freaky deak with you.

I say you're already living the dream. Go ahead and live every man's fantasy.

Were you both a bit older and in a monogamous, standard relationship where you hadn't had any 3somes before, or just one or two prior experiences, or if you had kids then I wouldn't recommend it as the variables would make it a far riskier proposition. Plus the consequences would be considerable.

But you're a very young, single couple with no kids? Sheeeeeyit...

Get yo Menage-a-twizzle on.


If your parents ask, just tell them she's a close friend of your wife's who left her abusive husband and needs a place to stay until she can get herself together and move out.

That should be a good enough excuse to buy you a good 6 month's worth of threesome time with the chick before your parents begin to arch an eyebrow.

[webcrawler]

Psycho, make sure you give us updates on this every 6 months cause everyone i know who tried it ended up breaking up. i agree you should try it cause you're both young enough to bounce back if it goes bad.

[MorpheusX]

Well, he's already walked down the 3some path on at least 4 prior occasions, so if a divorce is coming, the seeds have already been sewn way before now.

And if a breakup is coming, he might have well have his fun now and live the fantasy.

His wife is only 23, so I'm guessing he's still relatively young himself (maybe late 20s), so if a divorce happens, his best years are still ahead of him and he'll easily be able to find another woman and settle down and not repeat any mistakes he made with wife #1.

Some say that a first marriage is like your first car - you're going to make a lot of mistakes, dent it up, maybe ignore engine trouble until the whole thing is beyond repair and you've got to get rid of it.

But you've learned a lot about how to take care of a vehicle by the time you get your second car, so you know how to preserve it, take care of it and make it last.

If anything, this 3some live in arrangement will test their marriage, shake loose anything that needs fixing and bring any problems to a head.

The end result might be that they either solidify their relationship or end it.
In either case, he gets to stick his dick in both chicks for a while and will in all probability walk away with at least one chick in hand, regardless of the outcome.

It's a win/win for him.

If they decide after a whole that they don't want the chick in the middle, but want to stay monogamous, he wins because he now has great memories and experiences to reminisce about and great stories to tell.

Either way, he wins because he lived his life with passion.

The Greeks asked one question upon the funeral of a companion. Did he live with passion?

His answer will be a resounding "YES" -and that's all any one of us can hope for.

[ApollosWorld]

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